Loving Self and self

Self transformationHoping all are enjoying the more temperate winter weather and for those in the Philadelphia area- The Eagles’ Super bowl Win!!

Heads Up:“True Love is You Love” event is Fri. Feb. 16th at 7pm

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance”     Oscar Wilde

We are all aware that we must love ourselves in order to authentically love others and make choices from that place of love for our benefit and that of our world, but to do so is another story! We all find it easy to love the ‘good’ aspects, but the ‘bad’, ‘negative’, ‘unacceptable’ aspects are kept in shadow by our powerful defense system attempting to protect us from that which it fears will cause us pain, and anguish that we cannot handle. Of course this was true for that child for whom these defenses were created. But this generally resulted in us disconnecting and shunning ‘our other half’, creating divisiveness and separation between our self and our Self.

http://www.startrek.com/watch_video/episode-preview-the-enemy-within    (this is the trailer, try to watch the episode)

The disconnect continues and increases as time goes on utilizing an inordinate amount of energy and often requiring assistance from outside sources such as food, alcohol, medications and other ‘weapons’ in this ongoing battle within. How can we come to see the ‘ugly’ as beautiful and the painful as purposeful and perfect within our soul’s design?


We have chosen to exist in a universe of duality and to explore that dualism in one of its most extreme models, the earth, as separate pieces of the Whole. The drastic contrast within us and without in our world allows for an intensity of experience unique to each soul and contributing to the accumulation of knowledge of that Whole. For if we and all that exists are fragments of the Divine Whole then those parts of us and our world which repulse and disgust us must also be perfect and Divine.

You can search the entire universe, and not find a single being more worthy of love than you.” The Buddha

The current soul level energetics are ‘forcing’ the lower chakra, primal, primitive issues to be revealed on the national and global stage as well as in our individual lives. From an evolution standpoint this is part and parcel of the process. Granted we may be doing this at a more accelerated and intense pace than other planets before us, but those are the parameters of ‘the game’ we are in at the moment.

“One must have chaos in oneself in order to give birth to a dancing star”.            Friedrich Nietzsche

Yet we cannot come to evolve and thereby love those parts if we are constantly attempting to rise up and out of our bodies in an effort to not see and feel that which is in shadow. Fearful of the unknown in us, we try to use our minds and our wills to conquer and control those aspects or increasingly disconnect from them which only perpetuates the internal battle between good and bad, light and dark, love and hate. This friction often serves to catalyze us toward ‘re-soulution’, but in the meantime it can be damaging to our bodies, our relationships, our creative expressions and our hearts desires.

“Most of the shadows of this life are caused by standing in one’s own sunshine.”      Ralph Waldo Emerson

Many search for transcendence to a non-dual state feeling this Earth experience is a mistake or a punishment. But non-duality is where we came from and know (and always return to), while this universe is an adventure in duality. This is cutting edge discovery of individuation while, not merely remembering, but accessing and living your Divinity and that of ALL things while in a human experience of 3rd Dimensional limitation. Talk about contrast!

“When you adopt the viewpoint that there is nothing that exists that is not part of you, that there is no one who exists who is not part of you, that any judgment you make is self-judgment, that any criticism you level is self-criticism, you will wisely extend to yourself an unconditional love that will be the light of the world.” – Harry Palmer

Every time we disconnect or distance from, shut down, negate or oppress any part of us, we are perpetuating divisiveness and separation on the planet. Keeping an aspect in shadow propagates the fear of that ‘unknown’ and holds transformation at bay. The ‘ugliest’ in our society and world is being revealed daily. The opportunity to explore and transform these reflections in us with equally powerful and potent energetics to assist the process are available and accessible as never before! (https://healersuniverse.com/sessions/ )

“You are beginning to understand, aren’t you?
That the whole world is inside you -in your perspectives and in your heart.
That to be able to find peace, you must be at peace with yourself first;
and to truly enjoy life, you must enjoy who you are.
Once you learn how to master this, you will be protected from everything
that makes you feel like you cannot go on.
With this gift of recognizing yourself, even when you are alone, you will never be lonely.” – Unknown

As of recently the energetic of ‘mutual duality’ has come to the planet. A state of being wherein one can come to feel genuine gratitude and love for that which has taken on the role of negative or destructive individually and collectively. To know the abject beauty and perfection of the opposing forces within unity, represented so perfectly by the Yin Yang symbol. We each hold the potential to BE the Yin Yang symbol!

“The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours – it is an amazing journey – and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.This is the day your life really begins”.  – Bob Moawad

To support your journey to Self Love I am extending an offer of $20 off 75min Magical Transformation sessions transmitting the ‘Law of Purified Duality’ among other current energetics of Magic throughout the month of Feb. and for those who purchase a package of 3 or 5 sessions a $35 discount, which you can schedule beyond February.

Join me for either of two events this month for practicums and ceremony fostering ‘self’ love by the ‘Self’ and in the monthly Sacred Sisterhood Circle the theme will be “Love of the Feminine Way”!